How do you own your property and why does it matter?

How do you own your property and why does it matter?

The way your property (including your home!) is held could have major implications on how you make decisions on the property, who (and IF!) you can leave it to someone of your choosing in your Will and whether, or how much, Inheritance Tax is or will be payable.

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If you own the property alone, in your sole name then there is no complications as to how the property is held, however, if you hold the property with another person then it may be held as either:

  • Joint Tenants; or
  • Tenants in Common

So, let’s take a look at each of these in turn and their implications… 

Joint Tenants

If you hold your property as Joint Tenants then this means that you each own 100% of the property (rather than a share of the property).

This means that you, as well as the other owner/s, have equal rights to the entire property and are each entitled to an equal proportion of the sale proceeds if the property is sold.

The Rights of Survivorship apply to property held in a Joint Tenancy and so upon the death of one owner, the surviving owner/s will automatically be transferred ownership of the property (although they already had 100% previously in any event).

A property held as Joint Tenants CANNOT be left in a Will, due to the Rights of Survivorship.

Tenants in Common

Holding a property as Tenants in Common means that each owner owns a specified share of the property. This can be an equal share but may well be unequal shares, especially where each individual is contributing a different amount to the deposit or purchase price.

An owner of a property held as Tenants in common can leave their share in the property to whoever they choose within their Will. This also means that Property protection Trusts or other Trusts can be put in place if the owner wishes (this is not possible if the property is held as Joint Tenants).

How do you know?

If you are unsure how your property is held, do not worry! This is something that we can find out by taking a look at the property Title Deeds.

Can you change how you hold your property?

Of course! If you would like to hold your property a Tenants in Common as you think that this is likely to be more beneficial in the long run, then the Joint Tenancy can be severed.

If you would like more information, to find out more about how your property is held, to discuss severing a Joint Tenancy or putting Wills & Trusts in place, call us on 01727 865 121 or email us at info@TotalLegacyCare.co.uk for a free consultation

Leah Waller

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PLANNING… What are you waiting for?

PLANNING...

What are you waiting for?

We started the New Year by getting you think about all those grown-up things that are  on all of our to-do lists but many of us don’t get round to…that’s right, we are talking Wills, Powers of Attorney, Funeral Plans, Retirement and even dealing with the death of a loved one.

So, now that we have put all of our checklists and tips out there for you, we thought we would consolidate everything, in one place, to make things that little bit easier for you:

Let’s start at the beginning, New year, new resolutions, new you? Let’s getting planning…, when Neil gave an overview of exactly what we would be looking at over the course of our planning articles:

Here, Neil discusses exactly why he wanted to get a Funeral Plan in place and why his boys were such an important part of this decision.

A little checklist of considerations and points so that you can review your own Will and ensure that it is up to date and your wishes will be carried out when needed.

If you were in the unfortunate situation where you had lost capacity, whether that be temporarily or on a permanent basis, who would you want to make decisions for you?

Who would you trust to make the decisions that you would have if you had been able to?

As we know that being an Executor, although a privilege to be asked, can be a massive burden! We have set out a brief checklist of some of the things that an Executor should consider first when dealing with probate.

Just because saving for retirement is difficult, it doesn’t mean you should give up…Bobby Keer shares some great tips with us!

 

If you would like to have a free chat, please contact us on  info@TotalLegacyCare.co.uk or 01727 865 121

Leah Waller

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Valentine’s Day… What better gift to give your loved ones than peace of mind

Valentine's Day…

What better gift to give your loved ones than peace of mind

We are taking a little break from our weekly planning articles and checklists that are helping you to get all those important ‘grown-up’ jobs off of your to do list 😉 

This week we are talking about…Valentine’s Day.

So, hands up how many of us have forgotten to get our loved one a gift, or are at that stage where Valentine’s Day is just another day and gifts are a long distant memory?

Well, what about giving our loved one’s the gift of peace of mind?

What do we mean by peace of mind?

We set out below a couple of things that we know will help give you peace of mind as well as relieving the financial and emotional burden from your loved ones when the time comes:

  • Lasting Power of Attorney

Putting a Lasting Power of Attorney in place allows you to give the person you trust most the power and authority to make decision for you, in relation to you health & welfare and property & financial affairs, if you are unable to do so.

Giving your loved ones, as well as yourself, peace of mind that should anything happen and you are unable to make decisions (whether that be due to temporary or permanent loss of capacity or simply because you cannot be physically present where you are needed) that there is someone in place to take those decisions for you and make the decisions you would have, if you were able.

  • Will

Having a Will in place (and reviewing that Will!) will give you and your loved ones

peace of mind that when the worst happens all your wishes are written down and can be carried out as you intended.

  • Funeral Plan

Having a Funeral Plan in place means that you can not only take away the

financial burden from your loved ones by paying for your funeral in advance (whether in a lump sum or by instalments), you also remove the emotional burden as all your wishes will be written down and can be put into effect by the Funeral Director with minimal input from your loved ones at an already difficult time.

We have these in place as we understand just how important it is to be protected and we are more than happy to have a free chat with you too, no obligation – honestly!

If you would like to have a free chat about anything in this article, please contact us on  info@TotalLegacyCare.co.uk or 01727 865 121

Leah Waller

Happy Valentine's Day!

PLANNING…Checklist for Executors

PLANNING...

Checklist for Executors

This week we are focusing on Probate and the important role of Executors within the probate process.

So, let’s address a couple of questions first shall we…

What is probate?

Strictly speaking, Probate is proving the Will and showing that it is valid but many use the term to refer to the legal process following someone’s death. This is when someone with legal authority (the Executors, if there is a Will, or Administrators, if there is no Will) obtain a Grant of Probate or Letters of Administration, and can then collect in and distribute the Estate of the deceased.

Probate is usually required where an Estate (all the property, cash, savings, ISAs, investments and any other valuables) of the deceased have a combined total of £5,000 or more.

What is an Executor?

An Executor is appointed in your Will and is responsible for collecting in and protecting your estate, including any property and assets that you own, and carry out the distribution of such items in accordance with your wishes.

Now for the tough part…an Executor is legally responsible for everything that they do, or fail to do, when administering the Estate and they are financially liable for any loss that results as a breach of their duty, even if the breach was a mistake

To make things a little easier (as we know that being an Executor, although a privilege to be asked, can be a massive burden!) we have set out a brief checklist of some of the things that an Executor should consider first when dealing with probate:

  • Obtain the Death Certificate

As the Executor you will be responsible for notifying certain people, companies and authorities of the death and so the Death Certificate will be required.

  • Find the original Will

As the Executor you will need the Will in order to apply for Probate.

  • Applying for the Grant of Probate

This is the official document giving you authority to administer the Estate of the deceased, collect in and deal with their assets and then distribute them accordingly.

  • Collect in assets of the Estate

The Will and any accompanying documents that the deceased may have left may well give specific instructions as to what the deceased has and, importantly, where it can be located, however such specifics may not be given.

As the Executor you will need to ensure that you collect in and account for all of the deceased’s assets including property, stocks, shares, bank accounts, ISAs, personal items etc.

This will also include searching for any missing assets.

  • Put insurance in place

The Executor will be responsible for ensuring that relevant insurance is in place for the assets of the deceased until they can be distributed in accordance with the Will.

  • Complete Inheritance Tax Forms

The Executor is responsible for completing and submitting the Inheritance Tax Forms.

The Estate is responsible for paying the Inheritance Tax due on the Estate and the Executor is responsible for ensuring this happens.

  • Complete

The Executor is responsible for completing and submitting the necessary Income Tax and Capital Gains Tax returns and paying, from the Estate, any tax that is due.

  • Pay debts and liabilities

The Executor is not responsible for paying these personally however, the Executor is responsible for ensuring that any debts and liabilities, including funeral costs, are paid from the estate.

The Executor should also put a notice to debtors in the London Gazette.

  • Preparing Estate Accounts

The Executor is responsible for the preparation of Estate Accounts and ensuring that the Accounts are distributed to the relevant parties.

  • Distribution of the Estate to the Beneficiaries

The Executor will then be responsible for distributing the Estate assets, following the payment of all debts and taxes, in accordance with the deceased’s wishes as set out in their Will.

A detailed record of this, and all the steps taken by the Executor, should be kept throughout the process.

REMEMBER…You don’t have to do everything alone, ask for help as and when you need it!

 

You may need to ask for professional help from solicitors, probate specialists and/or tax advisers. If the estate is relatively small and doesn’t have any complexities, the Executor may well decide that they can carry out the process by themselves and this is also fine.

 

If you would like to have a free chat, please contact us on  info@TotalLegacyCare.co.uk or 01727 865 121

Leah Waller

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PLANNING…Wills Checklist

PLANNING...
Wills Checklist

This week we are focusing on ensuring that firstly, you have a Will but secondly, and most importantly, that your Will does exactly what you want it to…and is valid!

 

Remember, a Will is a working document and we always recommend reviewing your Will every three to five years (as a minimum) and when a life event occurs to ensure that it still does what YOU want it to.

 

We have set out below a little checklist of considerations and points so that you can review your own Will and ensure that it is up to date and your wishes will be carried out when needed.

 

 

  1. Executors

 

    1. Have you appointed someone that you TRUST implicitly as your Executor (or has the person who drafted your Will been inserted)?

 

    1. Does your Will mention replacement Executors to cover circumstances in which your first choice Executor is unable or unwilling to act?

 

  1. CHILDREN – such an important consideration for any parents!

 

    1. Who would you like to look after your children should both you and your spouse pass before they reach 18?

 

    1. Have you thought about replacement Guardians to cover circumstances in which your first choice Guardians are unable or unwilling to act?

 

  1. Trusts

 

    1. What age would you like your children to reach before having unconditional access to their inheritance (usually 18, 21 or 25)?

 

    1. Who have you appointed as Trustees (Managers, if you like) of your finances should your children inherit before reaching 18 (or the age you have prescribed in the Will)?

 

    1. Has a professional individual / body / organisation been appointed as Trustee and you would prefer to appoint a loved one?

 

    1. Do you need to consider including a Vulnerable Beneficiary Trust and are you aware of the special tax treatment?

 

    1. Do you want to pass your property to your children but ensure your spouse has somewhere to live for the remainder of their life?

 

 

  1. Specific Gifts

 

    1. Are there any specific gifts that you wish to leave to anyone?

 

  • Wedding ring

  • Watch

  • Jewellery

  • Money etc.

 

  1. Animals

 

    1. Do you have any animals that you need to make provisions for in your Will?

 

  1. Exclusions

 

    1. Is there anyone that you have specifically excluded from your Will (an ex-spouse, perhaps) that we should clarify an exclusion for?

 

  1. Funeral Wishes and Organ Donation

 

    1. Have you included your Funeral wishes in your Will or have you put a Funeral Plan in place?

 

    1. Have you included your wishes as to organ donation?

 

  1. The Legalities

 

    1. Witnessing

Has your Will been witnessed by two individuals that saw you sign the Will?

 

Are the witnesses, or their spouse, mentioned in the Will as a Beneficiary?

 

    1. Marriage

Marriage can make your Will invalid, unless the intended marriage is stated within your Will. So, if you have got married since writing your Will that Will will no longer be valid.

If you would like to have a free chat about your existing Will or making a new Will, please contact us on info@TotalLegacyCare.co.uk or 01727 865 121

Leah Waller

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New year, new resolutions, new you? Let’s getting planning…

New year, new resolutions, new you?
Let’s getting planning...

 

So, it’s the start of the New Year and we’ve said goodbye to another that’s passed. Last year may have been good, it may have been troubled and you may not have got round to ticking everything off that to-do list or kept last year’s resolutions…

 

Each week, we will be writing an article around the “grown up stuff” that should be planned for with useful information and free advice as always to help you to plan for your family’s future and keep on track (don’t worry we will keep them short, to the point and add a little element of fun where we can!).

 

We will be looking at:

 

  1. Funeral planning

    1. How to save your loved ones the emotional burden; and

    2. How to save loved ones the financial burden

 

  1. Wills & Trusts

    1. Planning for Inheritance Tax;

    2. Ensuring your money goes where you want it to;

    3. Guardians for your children;and

    4. Protecting your property against unwanted costs and taxes.

 

  1. Lasting Power of Attorney

    1. What is it and why is it important? and

    2. Who to choose as your Attorneys

 

  1. Probate

    1. What is the process and why is it important?

    2. How to get the help you need at such a difficult time;

    3. Why IHT forms are so important to complete correctly; and

    4. What are you liable for as an Executor?

 

  1. Pensions and investments

    1. Do you know how your pensions are performing?

    2. Are your investments working in the way you want them to or could they be placed elsewhere?

 

In all of our articles we aim to give you the information that you need in a simple and easy to understand format, to help you to make the decisions that you want to.

 

It seems that there is never enough hours in the day but let’s start the year on a positive and MAKE TIME to plan and get some of these things in place and off of your to-do list.

 

Check out our website for lots of free information or contact us for a free meeting.

Neil Barras-Smith

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Divorce: How does it affect my Will?

Divorce: How does it
affect my Will?

We all know the part “til death do us part” but sometimes, and ever more commonly, marriages end in Divorce – 108,421 in 2019. Some divorces are amicable, some not so much…

After taking all the time (not to mention legal costs!) in agreeing on how money, property & assets are separated, is a Will still valid?

The simple answer is Yes. If you have a valid Will whilst you are still married then divorce does not revoke your Will and so it remains valid.

Marriage on the other hand does invalidate a Will (unless your Will includes your intended marriage).

In some cases, you may not want to change your Will. Your Will, made when you were married, may well state who your assets should pass to and this may not change. However, upon divorce your ex-spouse will be treated as having died at the date that the Decree Absolute is given and so will no longer be Executor, Trustee or Beneficiary under your Will unless contrary provision is made in the Will.

So, what should you do if you do want to change who will inherit your estate, and how easy is it to change?

You can revoke a Will at any time (providing you have capacity to do so) and this is quite simple to do. 

If you make a new Will at any point in your life it will revoke any previous Will that you have made (providing it is done properly). 

So, when should you consider changing your Will? 

You can make a new Will at any time and so it may be worth considering this after separating from a spouse. You do not have to wait for the divorce to be finalised or the Decree Absolute in order to finalise a new Will. 

What if you get remarried? 

It is not uncommon nowadays for individuals to have second or subsequent marriages. 

As mentioned above, when you get married your Will becomes invalid unless your Will states your intended marriage and so it is important to review your Will and make sure it is still in place and does what you want it to. 

Another consideration upon a subsequent marriage is your children. If you have children from a previous marriage then they may not receive any of your Estate if you die without a valid Will in place. Again, it is always best to review your Will on a regular basis to ensure your wishes are carried out. 

If you would like to have a free chat about your existing Will or making a new Will, please contact us on  info@TotalLegacyCare.co.uk or 01727 865 121

Neil Barras-Smith

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Nursery Rhymes and Death…What is the connection?

Nursery Rhymes and Death... What is the connection?

So, why do we use nursery rhymes to talk about Death?!

It may seem like an unusual way to get our point across, but talking about death is always an uncomfortable conversation and so doing this through Nursery Rhymes has been a great way of getting people talking and encouraging them to plan for their families’ future!!

Nobody likes to think about death, as is evident by almost half the country not having a Will in place.  Without the right planning in place, things can go terribly wrong and you have no control over where your hard-earned money ends up! Unnecessary pressures and burdens can drive families apart and this is something that nobody would really want.

So what do we want…here are some of the main reasons why we want you to plan properly for your family’s future:

  • your money goes where we want it to;
  • children are looked after and guardians (that you choose) are put in place if needed;
  • to make it as simple as possible during a time of grief for your family to deal with your estate and assets;
  • can reduce Tax complications ensuring that as much of your hard-earned money goes where, and to who, you want it to;
  • to give you piece of mind, knowing that your family is planned for, should the worst happen.
  • if you Google Wills, Lasting Power of Attorney (LPAs), Funeral Plans or Probate, you’ll get a raft of very sombre looking pages, using stock photos of sad-looking elderly people or a dull video explaining why each is important. It’s depressing watching and reading through them and so no wonder the majority of people put it off, don’t act and fail to get the right measures in place.

We are very different here at TLC!!

We want people to feel relaxed talking about these subjects, understand the implications but know there are solutions and we always aim to put people at ease and answer any questions that they may have.  Talking about the ‘Elephant in the room’ is so important to plan for your family’s future, that’s why we take a different spin on things!

We love making videos to explain our world (and get our personalities across!). YouTube is the second largest search engine and therefore more people are looking to video for information – we don’t want to miss this opportunity.

Most people don’t like thinking about, let alone answering, the question “Who will look after my children if I die before they turn 18?” That is where we decided to use Nursery Rhymes to explain the  scenario in a way that, we hope, people can relate to.

So, what videos have we produced so far?

Jack & Jill

Possibly the most popular of all Nursery Rhymes.

In this short video, we explain:

  • what happens to your estate if there is no Will in place;
  • what happens to your estate, if you have a partner but are not married;
  • how a Will is used to carry out your wishes;
  • what happens if you remarry after the death of your former-spouse;
  • how a Will is void on marriage; and
  • how your children could receive nothing if not properly planned for.

 

Humpty Dumpty

Another classic Nursery Rhyme…with a twist.

We look at the loss of capacity and how a Lasting Power of Attorney (LPA) can really help. We look at some of the burdens and complications faced when there is no LPA is place and when there is no one that can act for you when you are unable to act for yourself due to a lack of capacity.

We explain:

  • how banks can freeze bank accounts if an account holder loses capacity;
  • how partners/family members have to find ways to pay bills, liabilities and maybe even healthcare on behalf of their loved one with no access to their accounts;
  • the different types of Lasting Power of Attorney;
  • the complications on deciding on healthcare; and
  • the authority to sell a loved one’s home.

Little old Women who lived in a shoe

This is the most delicate of subjects, talking about who we would want to be the Guardians of our children should we not be around.

In this video we explain:

  • what could happen to the children if your proposed guardians are not stated in a Will; and
  • how a simple Will could make life so much easier for your children and those you have left behind.

Although the videos are light hearted, this is done in a delicate way to ensure that we never sway away from how important our work is and, although we may make the videos fun, we are professional and knowledgeable within our field.

Neil Barras-Smith

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Will Inheritance Tax be payable on my Estate?

Will Inheritance Tax be payable on my Estate?

  • Inheritance Tax is payable at 40% upon death where an estate exceeds the Nil Rate Band (the Nil Rate Band is a personal allowance, that each individual is able to gift, upon death, without attracting any Inheritance Tax (for 2021/22 this is £325,000 per person)).

For more information on the Nil Rate Band and Residential Nil Rate Band, check out our article – Inheritance Tax: Record £5.2billion paid by UK in 2017/18

It is therefore important to know what your estate is, what assets form part of your estate and how your estate is valued. You can then plan accordingly to try and reduce your Inheritance Tax liability where possible and prepare for such an Inheritance tax bill if necessary.

First things first…What is your estate?

Your estate includes all of your assets, whether owned outright, solely or jointly. The combined total of this will then be used to calculate your Inheritance Tax liability.

However, any liabilities or debts that you leave will be deducted from the value of your assets before any Inheritance Tax is calculated. Any debts or liabilities owing at the time of your death are payable by your estate and so this value is reduced from the total value of your assets.

What assets are included when valuing your estate?

When calculating the value of your estate, all of your assets are valued at the date of death, and these assets will include:

          any asset which you can dispose of (sell, transfer or gift) in your Will, or which will pass by the Rules of Intestacy if you do not have a Will in place. This includes:

o   Property, Land, Buildings and any Interest in Property, Land, Buildings

including your home and any other property, land or buildings that you own or own with anyone else (including those that have a mortgage on them). This also includes any properties, land or buildings that you have an interest in.

o   Personal Items

including all household items and any items or possessions owned by you such as jewellery, clothing, glassware, silverware, china, porcelain, electrical goods, any works of art, vehicles, caravans, boats, planes and any collections (stamps/coins etc.).

o   Bank and Building Society Accounts / Savings

the money in all banks, buildings societies, saving accounts and ISAs as well as any accrued interest (whether or not credited to the account yet) at the date of death.

o   Premium Bonds / NS&I Products

savings with National Savings and Investments which may take a similar form to a bank or building society or may well be investments or premium bonds.

 

o   Pensions

Where pension payments continue after death they may be taken into account when valuing assets upon death, although these may well be exempt where the payments are made to a surviving spouse or civil partner.

Any lump sum payment that is made from the pension, upon death, may be liable to Inheritance Tax and form part of your estate but this will depend on the pension scheme rules and nominations.

o   Life Insurance Policies

payments from Life Insurance policies may be included within your assets unless they are written into trust for your beneficiaries. However, this will depend on the Life Insurance policy and terms of such policies.

o   Shares and Investments

including all stocks, shares and investments held either solely or jointly by you upon your death.

o   Employment Benefits

you may be entitled to outstanding payments from your employer if you die whilst still in employment, and if so, this will form part of your estate. However, if you have been paid in advance there may be a debt due from the estate to your employer. You may also be due share incentives, as part of your employment package, and this should also be considered.

o   State Benefits

your estate may be due some state benefits from the date of last receipt to the date of death. The Department for Work and Pensions should be written to in order to obtain this information.

o   Other Items

 

§  Lifetime Gifts that have been made within the seven years prior to your death that have reduced the value of your estate may need to be included.

§  Credit / Refunds including those that are due from utilities that have been paid in advance.

          any assets that are passed to others regardless of your Will or the Rules of Intestacy

o   this will include any property that passes because it was held by you as a joint tenant and therefore automatically passes to the other joint tenant/s upon your death.

          any assets that are included by way of legislation or statutory provisions

o   Trusts that you have a qualifying interest in (Interest in Possession, Immediate Post-Death Interest, Disabled Person’s Interest or Transitional Serial Interest).

o   Gifts with a Reservation of Benefit including any gift that is given by you but that you retained an interest in or that you continued to benefit from (such as a property that you have transferred but continue to reside in).

o   Gifts of an asset, or where you have helped to buy an asset and received a benefit from that gift or asset during your lifetime

 

We said earlier that your estate value is reduced by any debts and liabilities, so let’s take a look at what that could include:

  • Funeral Expenses
  • Outstanding utilities accounts such as gas, electric, water, landline, mobile phone, internet/broadband, TV, insurances etc.
  • Council Tax
  • Credit accounts such as credit cards, catalogues, standing orders, direct debits etc.
  • Overdrafts and Loans
  • TV Licence
  • Mortgage or Rent
  • Miscellaneous accounts such as a milkman, gardener, newsagent or similar.
 You may find it useful to check out our article – Inheritance Tax: What can be done to reduce your exposure?

If you would like to have a free chat about your Inheritance Tax liability and planning for the future, please contact us on  
or 01727 865 121

 

Leah Waller

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How I chose the guardians for my children…

How I chose the guardians for my children...

When choosing to put guardians in your Will what should you consider?

Often, when we are taking instructions from our clients, the conversation around putting guardians in place is one of the toughest.

For many, the main reason for getting their Will sorted is heavily influenced by who should look after their children if the worst happened. As a parent, it is especially hard to imagine someone else bringing up your children, nobody wants to think about what will happen if they are not around, but it is always worthwhile planning for and having measures in place should the tragic situation arise.

So, who is best to choose as guardians, what should you consider and how is best to tackle this difficult consideration and the conversation with your proposed guardians?

Using my own circumstances as an example, when I put my Will in place, I had to consider all of the following:

 

1)     Where would my children like to be (who with and location) if both of their parents were no longer around to look after them?

 

2)     Friends; I thought that during this tricky time of grief, my children would need to remain with as close to a normal routine as possible. Location was key to this so they can keep contact with friends, remain at a school they are familiar with, have family close to them and continue with clubs and activities they are used to and enjoy. This is not possible for everyone but was a consideration for me.

 

3)     Stability; choosing guardians that are able to look after my children until they are 18 and/or no longer need guardians was extremely important. Faced with the loss of their parents and moving in with guardians once is traumatic and I wouldn’t want this to happen again should their chosen guardians not be around until they reached an age they could live independently.

 

4)     The age of my proposed guardians; if the worst should happen now, it may be ok for my parents to cope with looking after my children, but what happens in 10 years’ time, will my parents be too old to cope or will it be too much for them?

 

5)     Am I burdening someone with the challenge of bringing up two (possibly additional) children?

 

6)     How will I finance my children through schooling and further education if I no longer had a regular wage coming in, I couldn’t expect someone to take on the responsibility of looking after my children and the added financial burden too?

 

All of these thoughts and worries ran through my head and I have always been a believer in the phrase “never ask someone to do something for you that you wouldn’t do in return for them”.

After careful consideration with my wife, we decided that the best person to be guardian of our children, should the circumstances occur, was my sister.

I wanted to have the conversation with my sister to ensure she was okay with this decision and once I had that conversation she was honoured and relieved that I had asked and had said that it was something that had been playing on her mind for a while but didn’t want to address it.

My sister also asked if I would be guardian to her children and this prompted her to put her Will in place soon after.

It was important to me to consider location; if my sister was a hundred miles away or even in a different country, would I have made the same decision? Probably not. Would I have wanted to put the burden on my parents? Would I look to a friend to be guardians of my children? There is a lot to consider all whilst bearing in mind what is best for my children. Then I had to consider reserve guardians, what if my sister was not willing to act if the time came, or she was no longer around. I went through the same considerations when putting my reserve guardians in place to cover this eventuality. 

One thing playing on my mind when I first began planning my Will and who I would appoint as guardians was, if I don’t plan, prepare and choose guardians, who will?

In circumstances where guardians have not been named in a Will, and no provision has been made for the children, the responsibility falls to the Local Authority to place children with guardians. The Local Authority have a duty to take care of the children’s best interests whilst making their decision, but this could take time and there is a possibility of being placed in temporary care whilst this process takes place. A harrowing thought that urged me to get my wishes written in my Will.

Like most of our clients, when I finally signed my Will, I felt a relief that despite what the future holds for me, I have taken the precautionary measures to ensure my children are looked after by the right people.

The lesson I learnt when dealing with this was that it’s always best to have these conversations and speak openly about your concerns. We managed to resolve two issues in one; guardians for both my children and my nephews.

I’m not saying that this is the solution for everyone and other family dynamics are different but, having these conversations are always worthwhile and ensuring that those people that you would like as your guardians understand the responsibility and are happy with the decision. 

 If you would like to discuss your Will and potential Guardians, call us on 01727 865 121 or email us at info@TotalLegacyCare.co.uk for a free discussion on how we can help.

 

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